Okay, go tell {your wife, your children, your parents, etc}, and say: “I love you, but there’s a part of of you that I just can’t accept and want to change.” Will they think you still love them? Do you think you can love them that way?
Your love to them should be a source of power to accept all of them. Your love to life should empower you to embrace death.
Possibly this is well meant, but all I get from it is that you don't appear to know enough about life to give that advice (both the content of the advice, and the method of giving it).
Your love to them should be a source of power to accept all of them. Your love to life should empower you to embrace death.